Advice to all sexual content bloggers: Stay Anonymous: Farewell
Well, I am about to have a lot more free time, and I will enjoy that. The time required to keep blogging almost everyday while I am in town is quite significant. We love to travel, and the travelling bug is about to hit. For those who are regular readers, you will now have more time to continue on with other things in life.
The significance and importance of my blog: very little
Although I have found it pleasant to write, it has limited me from reading other people's blogs.
Many people come to this blog, and are gone in less than five seconds. Simply click on the view my stats on the sidebar, and when there, click on visit length. Normally, more than half of the visitors are gone in under five seconds.
Some simply come, look at the pictures and the quotes, then leave quickly. Hopefully you have bookmarked the links I used to have, and already joined the yahoo groups that I once listed.
However, over 2,500,000 visits was a hell of a good run. Hope it has amused you!
However, over 2,500,000 visits was a hell of a good run. Hope it has amused you!
To believe that this blog has any real significance is foolish!
I have no problem in closing it.
I have made zero money from this blog, but was offered some freebies by a few grateful sites that I have publicized. However, this would entail giving them my real name and address, so that was a non-starter.
I have annoyed people at times, and that is unfortunate.
It was never my intention!
I have occasionally been sent disagreeable letters demanding I remove a picture or give credit to them for the picture, or why won't I let them talk about what happened when they were young, why are you not letting me post anonymous you SOB..., you are making your blog up: it is fiction, blah..blah..blah.. Shall we say tiresome...
Wherever possible, I do quote the site if I find a picture or drawing on a website.
However, most of my drawings and pictures come from different yahoo groups, with no identity to origin attached.
In choosing to close-off anonymous, I have unfortunately annoyed some people. At least one has chosen to use the dwcmike name to sign up for all sorts of things, from which i now get quite a lot of junk mail. The spam filter at Hotmail works, and the total in my junk file normally is about 650 emails, with Hotmail deleting the ten day old junk, while new junk arrives daily to replace the deleted. I am HAPPY to know I have pissed off someone enough that they now have a mission in life.
AS WILLIAM SHATNER(Captain James T Kirk - Star Trek) ONCE SAID in a spoof, " to all those StarTrek Trekkies who believe!!!, I sincerely mean it when I say " GET A LIFE". It was a television show, not REALITY!
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You may have noticed that I have changed the title of my blog, and you may have just realized that almost all previous posts have disappeared. The main reason is explained below:
ADVICE TO ALL BLOGGERS:
STAY ANONYMOUS!!!
As we let people peek into our sexuality, and our lifestyle, we do so with anonymity.
Bloggers can, thus, feel free to encourage others of the benefits of whatever sexual lifestyle they are supporting. [It may be gay, it may be Lesbian, it may be straight, it may be religiously inspired, conservative, right wing, left wing (Smitty: a drumroll please: I prefer Buffalo wings: Dante will get it), foot fetish,foul language fetish, porno movies, dildos, strap-on, bondage, spanking, golden showers, voyeurism, exhibitionism, any other ism.., cross dressing (women get away with it, men are called transvestites) , husband swapping, threesomes, foursomes, it may be with animals (but fortunately that is prohibited in blogging [I think])... the list can go on to the end of eternity.
The blogger displays things of their lifestyle which MIGHT create difficulties if other people in daily life knew about this peccadillo.
This blog hopefully helped people realize that, if one of the partners has an occasional fetish, it could greatly help the relationship. Hopefully, as has been in our case, it can help to both increase and enhance our sexual desires for each other. Our love is even greater than when we were married, just like a fine wine aging.
A relationship is extremely fortunate, if it grows in love. With play, we end up making love on average about two to three times a week, which is fabulous after more than 35 years of marriage. (It is never simply ... the same old thing... it is also the quality, not the quantity)
That has been our case.
We are playful, but with the TOTAL emphasis on love.
Whatever method your play entails, if it increases the couple's sexual desire for each other, then it is great.
As the saying goes, make love, not war.
Have fun in life....
Best wishes to everyone we have ever met... on line or in person,
PS: you can still chat with me by email, but that will also eventually close)
Mike and Lynn
